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4.1 Murray Bowen's beautiful strategy

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1.0 BREAK THE SPELL

1.1 Make your hard decisions nurture you
1.2 Defy the global dementor

2.0 MAKE A POLITICAL HOME

2.1 The danger of political homelessness
2.2 Find your partners, network into coalitions

3.0 KNOW THE GAME WE’RE IN

3.1 Tribal fundamentalism: our blessing and our curse
3.2 Why it’s so much harder for us than it is for them
3.3 Days when reality is impossible to accept

4.0 STEP OUTSIDE THE GAME

4.1 Murray Bowen’s beautiful strategy
4.2 Develop your own personal independent moral stance
4.3 Who I am matters more to me than my fate
4.4 A deeper definition of soul
4.5 The best kind of reparation: moral transformation
4.8 Boomers, let’s not dump the job of salvation on young people
4.7 Identify with our species not our tribes
4.8 Self-development for our movements

5.0 PLAY AGAINST THE GAME

5.1 This special power
5.2 The tribal parenthesis (look in here)
5.3 Hypocrisy isn’t a double standard, it’s worse
5.4 We need an enemy we can personify
5.5 Self-defense without demonizing
5.6 Loyalty tests
5.7 Tribe matters more than truth
5.8 Born to gossip

6.0 GIVE NO QUARTER TO NIHILISM

6.1 Despair so deep it erupts into rage
6.2 Tribalism without the nurturance
6.3 To a nihilist, nurturance is an existential threat
6.4 Nihilism is moral abdication
5.5 The “strongman” is a moral weakling
6.6 A life of abundant hatreds and eager cruelty
6.7 The tragedy of Trump, the tragedy of us

7.0 INVITE TRANS-TRIBAL CONVERSATIONS

7.1 Listening is a good start but not enough
7.2 Prepare yourself for the challenge
7.3 Decide who you want to talk with
7.4 Discovery interviews using curiosity questions
7.5 Deepening questions
7.6 Dialogues and role playing
7.7 The common-ground strategy
7.8 Focus on process, which means relationship
7.9 Be their advocate no matter what
7.10 Name the despair in the room
7.11 Narrate yourself

8.0 ADVANCED ISSUES

8.1 Protect the hope continuum from tribal division

INVITATIONS

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Coaching – Feel for yourself, fight for yourself
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