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Coaching – Feel for yourself, fight for yourself
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1.5 One sentence forever

The more deeply
we feel for ourselves,
the more fiercely
we will fight for ourselves.

1.0 YOU COME FIRST

1.1 Let’s make them envy us
1.2 What’s deepest in your heart?
1.3 Decide about going deep
1.4 Defend yourself against despair
1.5 One sentence forever

2.0 MAKE A POLITICAL HOME

2.1 Political homelessness
2.2 Find your partners
2.3 Character first, democracy second
2.4 Let’s not dump the job of salvation on young people
2.5 Self-development for our movements

3.0 KNOW THE GA\ME WE’RE IN

3.1 Tribal fundamentalism: our blessing and our curse
3.2 Why it’s so much harder for us than it is for them

4.0 PLAY AGAINST THE GAME

4.1 Break the tribal spell
4.2 The tribal parenthesis (look in here)
4.3 Hypocrisy isn’t a double standard, it’s worse
4.4 We need an enemy we can personify
4.5 Self-defense without demonizing
4.6 Loyalty tests
4.7 Tribe matters more than truth
4.8 Born to gossip
4.9 Protecting the hope continuum from tribal division

5.0 NEVER SURRENDER TO DEATH

5.1 Despair so fierce it erupts into rage
5.2 Tribalism without the nurturance
5.3 To a nihilist, nurturance is an existential threat
5.4 Nihilism is moral abdication
5.5 The “strongman” is a moral weakling
5.6 Abundant hatreds and eager cruelty

6.0 TRANS-TRIBAL ACTION

6.1 We identify with our tribes not our species
6.2 Common enemy, common ground
6.3 Dumping exceptionalism
6.4 Genomic activism: remaking human togetherness

7.0 TRANS-TRIBAL CONVERSATION

7.1 Listening is a good start but not enough
7.2 Prepare yourself for the challenge
7.3 Decide who you want to talk with
7.4 Discovery interviews using curiosity questions
7.5 Deepening questions
7.6 Dialogues and role playing
7.7 The common-ground strategy
7.8 Focus on process, which means relationship
7.9 Be their advocate no matter what
7.10 Narrate yourself
7.11 Name the despair in the room
7.12 Challenge non-voters instead of babying them

8.0 SO VERY SERIOUS, SO VERY FUN

8.1 Who I am matters more to me than my fate
8.2 Celebrate ourselves as champions of nurturance

INVITATIONS

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Coaching – Feel for yourself, fight for yourself
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